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Men at the Women’s March? You bet. Here’s why they came.

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According to this attendee, “White men don’t do enough shutting up and listening, so that’s why I’m here today.” |  Naomi Shavin

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WASHINGTON, DC — At least 500,000 people attended the Women’s March on Washington, and while most of the marchers were women, a substantial portion of attendees were men, despite early reports suggesting that men might not turn out in great numbers.

After all, there were arguments about whether men were welcome in general. Even men who wanted to attend didn’t know the march was inclusive to them, since the name and platform were centered on women. Any confusion leading up to the march about who it was for, who could participate, and why it was important to show up in person, though, was sorted out by Saturday. Men arrived at the National Mall on Saturday morning to rally for women and gender equality, and also stand up for other marginalized groups and pressing issues.

As New Yorker Spencer Edwards put it, “Women’s struggles are human rights struggles.” His partner Steve Saporito added, “Solidarity includes showing support in DC to help make it as big a demonstration as possible.”

Steve Saporito and Spencer Edwards say their “pussyhats” were knitted by a nine-year-old girl in Washington state | Naomi Shavin

The men I spoke with throughout the day listed a variety of reasons they couldn’t have missed the march. “I can’t look back at this time and think: I didn’t do everything I could,” said participant Dan Lomask.

Jossif Ezekilov said, “for too long the women’s movement has not had male participation. Even the most liberal men among us have seen this as a women’s only issue.” He continued, “breaking down a lot of these gender barriers helps everybody. I want to be part of that.”

Jossif Ezekilov holds a sign and stands with friends outside the Newseum. Crowds spilled from the mall into downtown Washington, DC. |  Naomi Shavin

Several male attendees told me they were inspired to march by female family members. Josh Schorlemmer, who attended with his twin brother Jake, spoke of their mother. “She was a single mom and she worked her ass off for us to have everything we needed,” said Josh. “I think it’s good to be out here so she gets paid the same as men and she has the same rights.”

Jake added, “Not to be the stereotypical twin, but that’s exactly what I was going to say.” Their mom texted them Saturday morning to tell them she was proud.

“I’m a feminist, 100 percent,” Josh said. “I don’t see why everybody doesn’t want to be that.”

Twins Josh and Jake Schorlemmer are both in law school, in DC and New York, and met up to march together on behalf of their mom. | Naomi Shavin

Mike Child was another proud feminist male marcher. His sweatshirt read “Feminist AF,” and he told me, “In general, I think that white men don’t do enough shutting up and listening, so that’s why I’m here today.”

Child wasn’t the only self-identifying white man eager to “show solidarity,” as Jason Ashley said: “I’m not a minority in any way. I think it’s important for people like me to come out because we have a lot of institutional power that isn’t necessarily used to help other people, and it’s about to be used to continue the United States’s way of discriminating.”

Trump’s misogynistic campaign demeaned not only women, but essentially every minority group in the country. The Women’s March became the a meeting point for people from many marginalized groups, like Victor Yang, to raise their voices. “I really think we need equality for all, and on top of that I’m a minority, so I feel this isn’t just a march for women, it’s also a march for minorities to demonstrate to the new president that he has to keep us in mind,” he said.

Victor Yang (center left) and Jason Ashley (center right) each spoke about how their identities factored into their respective decisions to march. | Naomi Shavin, Emily Crockett

Like many of the women, men also traveled from far and wide to rally and march. Bernard Dunayevich said he flew in the night prior from San Francisco to attend, “just for this. I flew in last night.”

Arthur, a lifelong feminist from Brooklyn, NY, called the march, “an antidote to what happened yesterday.”

“Since I was 12 years-old. I had a mother who was very fair minded and rational and reasonable and it was [the time of] women’s liberation. She explained a few things, and I said, ‘Of course that’s fair.’” I asked him what he thought of the march unfolding around him. “It’s a lot of fun to be here,” he grinned. “The last time I was here was the Obama inauguration. It’s bringing back happy memories.”

Arthur drove down from Brooklyn in an SUV with five other people. He said he was one of three men on the trip. | Naomi Shavin

But beneath the joy, empowerment, and inspiration some men described feeling, many said there was a deep resolve. “The march today is a trigger to get involved and we’re gonna stay involved,” promised Tom Palley, who also spoke about his daughter and his wife. Another father, George Faraday, said “I have a daughter and I don’t want her to grow up in the kind of world that I think Trump has in mind for women.”

Bernard Dunayevich and Tom Palley had “the honor of being the only guys” in their group at the march. | Naomi Shavin

4 thoughts on “Men at the Women’s March? You bet. Here’s why they came.

  1. In 2009 and 2013, I had the esteemed privilege to attend both inaugurations of President Obama. Since Fall, 2016, I had been planning on attending the inauguration of our first woman president, Hillary Clinton. Unfortunately, Vladimir Putin and James Comey intervened in our election and prevented me from attending Mrs. Clinton’s inauguration. Undeterred, I nevertheless decided that I would stand with thousands and thousands of my progressive sisters and brothers on January 21, 2017 by traveling to Washington, D.C. at the #WomensMarch. Despite the physical difficulties of gathering with over 500,000 of my fellow freedom fighters at the #WomensMarch, I proudly did so on that awesome Saturday and I am so glad I did! Let me just tell you, we sent a clear and loud message to Mr. Trump that millions of Americans (and freedom-loving people all over the world — there were anti-Trump demonstrations all over the world on Saturday) will vigorously and continuously RESIST your racist, sexist, and plutocratic agenda. I return from the #WomensMarch with growing confidence and growing strength in #TheResistance. Mr. Trump, WE SHALL NOT BE MOVED, AND WE SHALL OVERCOME!!!

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  2. It appears that America is FINALLY growing up into the Twenty-First Century world.
    If the “fundamentalist Christians” could see their way up from the Fourth Century, we might make this old world find its way to peace and prosperity.

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